The voyeuristic enjoyment of a beautiful dom's self indulgence in sadism with my voluntary submission.  And then periodic worship, emotional manipulation and any psychological process that deepens submissiveness and addiction.

For me it's the power exchange and giving up control to my Mistress and having my limits pushed and making her happy with my submission to her.  I served the same Mistress for 5 years and she took me to places I never would have imagined when I began serving her.  It was a wonderful journey into total submission.

For me it is sharing experiences with new people and giving them the opportunity to explore their kinks and fetishes for the first time. I have always loved that - connecting with people and the community I have found in BDSM

what titillates me

I love watching the delight in the eyes of the sub who is giddy with pleasure, panting with glee as they please their own desire to serve me while my pussy pulsates as I realize how much I love being served.
I love BDSM because with the right partners it actually fortifies your trust in yourself and other people, there is nothing more freeing than giving into a fantasy and watching it come to life in a safe, judgement free zone.  

BDSM is intriguing because it involves a complex mix of psychology, power dynamics, trust, and communication.  

It offers a way to explore different aspects of ourselves in a consensual, controlled environment. The variety of roles and scenarios within BDSM can also create opportunities for deep connection, self-expression, and even personal growth.  

As a student of the mind and all its multiple dimensions it is fascinating how these experiences can evoke powerful emotions, build intimacy, and challenge boundaries in a safe and negotiated way.  I adore watching friends discover a new “thing” about themselves that otherwise would have remained hidden for a lifetime.